Save me from my blunder!

[Rehiro]

AAAAA! I need help! Good friends of the CTV forum, something terribly wrong has just occured! A friend of mine has it in his mind to visit this place! Remember Norbert? Well.... Lets just say that he may have a connection with the one of whom I have been theorizing.... In that thread (I wont say which thread aloud) and now he plans to make a return! I know a large number of people have made theories on anonymous people that the forum community could not cause harm to, but that forum members are off limits. Well... to cause harm to an individual outside the community.... could that be a crime? Could exploiting a very serious secret of that person, even if it is only theorized by the person talking who has no ultimate proof.... if this could harm a person.... is that wrong?

If so, should I cover up what I have said? And if I should, will you guys help me, by modifying your own posts? (Most of you people dont have anything to do with it).

If worse comes to worse.... I could swallow my shame, but that it carries to other people is the issue. I have held this guy off.... for now.... but it wont hold forever!

And before you judge me harshly.... Many members of the complainery section have spoken against people they know.... insulted people they know.... its even come to the point where others have come upon my situation..... and are in peril of my situation... so.... keep that in mind.

Insights?

[Dundee]

My goodness! I do hate it when I dig myself into a hole like this. The thing I'd do? Shut down his internet. Bribe his parents to put this site on the 'not allowed' list. They'll know how to do it. Or just bribe him. There. Those are all my horrible ideas: DON'T TAKE MY ADVICE.

[RainyRibbon]

Well, I think that honesty is the best policy. But... Since your friend might get his feelings hurt... I'm not sure. If you feel that strongly about him not knowing, then edit it. If you just don't want his feeligns hurt, I would suggest speaking to him in real life about it. Be honest, and tell him that his advances make him uncomforatable. But if you think that doing that might cause unnecesary conflict, editing your post would probably be the best policy.

[silverwolf]

Again, try to avoid violence. Er...conflict. If you want people to modify posts , I'm sure the community would be glad to help. I know I would, as I'm almost positive that I've commented on these posts.

If you decide to modify things, send me a message telling me where the posts in need of modifying are, because I won't know.

[Wolfy]

Same here, Rehiro!! ^^

[Rehiro]

Yeah..... I could.... try getting his parents to ban the sight. I could say it is a drug.... using.... community. See? I got that right off the top of my head. But.... computers arent exactly the hardest thing to find nowadays, and hed probably get on anyway.

Um.... yeah, I think I can edit my posts if nobody gets offended.... then I can just say that the conflict was something like..... a candy thievery... I think hes stealing my secret stash of candycains! Yeah.... right off the top of my head.

Ill list all the things that need to be edited, and then people can act in whatever way they want to act, and I wont be offended.

[Zolah]

but Rehiro, wouldnt it mean then to delete this topic or simillar?

anyways, just tell me if you need any help - ill do my best even though it is EXTREMLY hard to take away things from a forum. i mean there may be left overs that you have missed.
and ( dont know in this forum though ) usually it shows when a post been edited on date etc

[Shippo_no_Neko]

Yeah, I would delete them. Those posts might kinda offend him. And with the edit bar, you can write something at the bottom like:

EDIT: I misspelled "candycanes," and fixed it. There you go!

[Rehiro]

Hey..... I did misspell candycane..... did you do that on purpose, Shippo?

Alright Zolah, well its better to try then not to try. I want to be able to say that I did my best to cover up for my blunder in a worst case scenario. Anyway, I dont think I have mentioned the name of the individual whos secret I am saving in this thread, or what thread to find that individuals probable secret. I think this thread can probably stay up, and I dont think that it will be too difficult for me to find the crucial posts for this particular fiasco. I have a memory like a fiend, and there wasnt too much spill out.

Just everybody remember not to say anything about the "candycane fiasco" from now on. Or at least say it really vaguely and hard to understand like I just did.

[Zolah]

ok Rehiro

[Rehiro]

Okay, so I edited all my posts that I wanted edited to contain candycanes. If that offends anyone, it can be taken down. Anyway, every post from the one beneath the one with the topic "candycane fiasco" to the one beneath the last one marked candycane fiasco need to either be edited or deleted. Okay, not need to be edited or deleted, but im making it a request.

I feel bad for the people who gave me advice..... Should I keep it somewhere? Like in a PM or on Word, so that history is not erased? It was just you, Zolah, and Ryo who gave me advice on this particular subject matter though, right?

[Zolah]

Its your decision, If you want i can later on delete this topic since I still have the almigthy mod powers. ( oh my i sound like a dying god ) I dont mind you deleting since it aout your problems ans thus if it makes your situation better I think its no problem. sorry if my message seems a it odd, ive been moving furniture and made rolls whole day

[Rehiro]

But.... if we delete this thread, people will wonder why I was talking about candycanes! I dont really mind people knowing that I have secrets.... in my mind I only ever speculated and if people can not find out about whom I was speculating, there should be no problem. The way things turned out, I dont think I can have blame placed on me, but I dont want uncomfortable things to happen of this anyway.

I dont even think Norbert will be returning anyway. He talked about it. I stalled. And he hasnt talked about it since. He isnt the type with the hugest attention span sometimes.

Yeah, you sound like a dying god..... you have made the request to leave the mod position, right?

[Zolah]

ok :3

well, I have both memtioned it in the mod section .pmed amy about it ... only thing i can do atm is either dont care about my modness or delete my acc and remake it

[Rehiro]

Yeah, im torn on whether I should actually ask people to change their posts, or if I should just stop being paranoid. I think that I had justification to worry at first, but not anymore really. I think the danger has been averted. If it bothers anyone, I can even remake those posts. I saved them by PMing them to myself. I could just edit and remake them as they were.

Well, then I believe that you have been stripped of the pressure to continue your duties as a mod. I would be grateful for any help you gave me (even though I just said I didnt want it in this circumstance) but you're not required to give it.

[Rehiro]

Kind of sort of red alert. It looks like Norbert is in the house, but he has yet to penetrate into the secrets of.... that thread.
So if I might make the request, I would like to have all the posts under the first post with the topic "Candycane fiasco" in... that thread and the one under the second one with that title under a post of mine.... dealt with... if I may make that request.