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Post by ZeroVX on May 22, 2008 14:25:56 GMT -5
I have HAD it.
Earlier today, I went home for lunch. It takes me about 15 minutes to get from my school to my house, leaving me about 10, maybe 15 minutes to eat.
So, I finish my lunch with time to spare, and what happens? My brother walks in with two of his friends, when I have to leave in 10 minutes.
Naturally, he takes his sweet time, leaving my mom about five minutes to get us to school before the bell goes.
Now, you need to understand that I pride myself on my late record. It's spotless. I have had zero lates in my high school career. I had one earlier this semester, again because of my brother, and I came within an inch of getting another one today.
I ask you: Where is the fairness? My brother doesn't care one bit about his school career or anything or anyone but himself. And who suffers for it? I DO! Me! Someone who actually cares about finishing school and getting a decent career and making a living! WHERE IS THE JUSTICE IN THAT?!
I have put up with him for the past 14 years and I have HAD IT! He cares about nothing, no one, and no problems, but himself and his own desires.
You know, there's a word for people like him: SOCIOPATHS! They don't care one bit about anyone and only use people to get what they want, and I am sick to death of LIVING WITH ONE!
I want him out of my house, out of my neighbourhood, out of my city, my country, and OUT OF MY LIFE!
*huff, huff*
So, yeah. I'm not in a good mood.
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Post by ogrefairy on May 22, 2008 14:55:56 GMT -5
Wow.... That sounds very stressful. The more common term for what he is would be younger teenage brother. Trust me he is no different from most others. >.< I understand you probably hate him for all this. I am glad you made it back in time.
I'm sorry sorry you have such a bad relationship with your brother. >.< I wish I could help you. You just have to put up with him for a bit longer. Who knows, he may grow up yet. *shrugs*
Your situation is really stressful right now so I understand why this would be exceptionally infuriating. *hugs*
Try and relax a bit sweety.
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Post by ZeroVX on May 22, 2008 15:08:00 GMT -5
*hugs back*
Believe me, I've tried to deal with him. I've tried.
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Post by ogrefairy on May 22, 2008 15:12:46 GMT -5
I know. It's very hard to deal with someone who is self centered. I have to take care of my two younger siblings and they both have multiple behavioral problems on top of caring for no one but them selves. My brother even has the wonderful teenager thing going on so it's just wonderful to deal with.
Your brother sounds like a little monster. >.< It sounds like he really needs someone to take control over him but with your current family situation I can see how things aren't exactly getting done, besides the fact of him being the baby of the family. >.<
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Post by ZeroVX on May 22, 2008 15:38:06 GMT -5
No kidding.
And I just know that if and when my parents split that he's going to get even worse. He'll wind up in juvie within the month of the divorce.
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Post by ogrefairy on May 22, 2008 15:41:26 GMT -5
Well I sure hope not. >.<
Things are going to be really hard for a while though. >.< You never know though, he could react differently to the situation then you expect, of course he could also react worse. You never know how he will end up handling it in the end but all in all, everyone will probably be stressed for a while. >.<
I totally wish I could help some how. xc I don't know how I could though.
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Post by ZeroVX on May 22, 2008 15:57:44 GMT -5
Ya listened to my rant. That's good enough for me.
Thanks. *hug*
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Post by ogrefairy on May 22, 2008 16:04:21 GMT -5
You're always welcome.
*hugs back*
I really hope that things get better for you.
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Post by NightWing on May 22, 2008 17:55:26 GMT -5
Yikes... younger siblings really suck sometimes...
I don't have anything intelligent to say really, but I am sorry things aren't exactly going well >_<
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Post by nihilartikel on May 22, 2008 18:12:20 GMT -5
As a part time sociopath myself, I feel I should jump the the defense of your brother and say he is not necessarily one of us.
As has been pointed out, he is just a brother, and a younger one at that. They are inherently designed to provide difficulty and frustration in your life. I would like to say that eventually he will grow out of it, but there is really only a 50% chance of that happening. We males rarely 'grow out' of immaturity.
I suggest looking at living with him as all the more motivation to find ways around him for now, get a good education and stay the hell away from him when you head to college.
good luck.
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Post by {×ÏÑk§tÊ®88×} on May 22, 2008 22:06:41 GMT -5
Blah.
Nihi said pretty much everything, Except I'm not a sociopath. And ogrefairy.God, i'm late.
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Post by tyrone on Jul 23, 2008 20:00:06 GMT -5
...I'm a younger teenage brother...
Seriously, ... You got a car? Probably not since I think you said that your Mom had to drive you... whatever. Anyway, if you do, what you do is leave when you need to, and leave his backpack on the steps with a note saying something to the effect of "You were lazy. Get walking."
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