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Post by Zolah on Nov 3, 2005 19:57:07 GMT -5
Well, I dont go over any line i just exist there when they feel sad etc... or i am myself, talking about games and such. being all random crazy ^^
Even guys i never would expect saying that did it, it feel ver akward...
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 3, 2005 20:45:18 GMT -5
Silver: Hmmm... im afraid I can only tell you what not to do. Like study his walking patterns, then appear with all your friends. Then have your friends dissapear and then expect him to make the first move.
Or jump out of the shadows with all your friends, corner him and try and force him to go out with you.
Both of those situations made me panic and I couldnt think of what to do with the first one and I got defensive with the second one.
You could always just say "I like you"... though I cant imagine myself doing anything like that. If someone just approached me on my own terms, without plotting and planning and trying to force me to do anything, I would probably be a lot friendlier.
Zolah: Heh, we all have problems with getting into relationships and you have trouble with too many people falling in love with you.
Maybe its the hats influence.
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 4, 2005 17:54:52 GMT -5
Erm, shoulda been clearer.
HE likes ME. But he doesn't know that I realize it. I'm not really the 'going out' type, you see. And my friends aren't too fond of him. So, I'd probably turn him down if he asked me out. I'm not sure. I'm kinda confused.
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 4, 2005 18:24:34 GMT -5
Well then cant you just act disinterested and see if he does anything about it? Then if he does, you can turn him down... Why should he know that you know?
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Post by Zolah on Nov 5, 2005 6:13:06 GMT -5
Hmm, instead of rodents with horns it attracts b´varius gaming freaks O.o
intresting...
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 5, 2005 14:11:10 GMT -5
Meh, I'm just confused, most guys don't dhow any intrest in me. I've never been in this situation before.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 5, 2005 14:25:23 GMT -5
=\ I'd like to be in a situation someday... .-.
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Post by Zolah on Nov 5, 2005 17:30:19 GMT -5
I promise... you dont want too...
think yourself, ive never even thougth a guy could look at my direction.. poof, i got a BF... and a while later... poof! people falls in love with you O.o
NOT FUN!
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 5, 2005 17:47:04 GMT -5
Yeah, but I'm still where you were... No one even looking at me.
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Post by Zolah on Nov 5, 2005 19:28:23 GMT -5
Thats just a conforting illusion ntil suddenly you realises things you didnt see before... one of my friends told me that he was intrested in me but he was to afraid to tell me. YOur mind can blind you, you must open your eyes  ( god i sound like i got paranoia...) The one who loves/like you can be one of your friends that you never would think of.. or just a terrible shy girl or even someone that just is afraid what their friends would say... there is so many factors that can make such things very hard to see. and since i just noticed youre a male, i should just say one thing that is quite correct. You problebly have to deal out the cards if you think someone is liking you, girls are often ( not always ) to scared or so to take the 'first step' - but be carefull... many of my friends took TOO MANY steps trying to impress a girl... that was a ugly sigth.. *shakes head* but back to the conversation... Girls isnt much diffrent to guys, its often their uppbringing on how they see guys like. ex : I always hanged out with guys doing 'guy stuff' but it took me nearly 2 months to realise that my current boyfriend was hitting on me... cause i always thougth ' he just foolin around, he is my pal he isnt thinking about such stuff' - so hold your eyes open geez, i write much when im tird.. i dont really understand what i written.. well im off to bed... *runs away* |
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 5, 2005 20:15:54 GMT -5
That all makes sense... I wouldnt even know how to hit on a girl...
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Post by deltaT on Nov 8, 2005 23:21:53 GMT -5
You could start by just talking to a girl...you do it here on the forum. In fact, you seem downright popular. You really should try just treating girls like you would guys....we're not so different.
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Post by Zolah on Nov 9, 2005 6:28:03 GMT -5
exactly, wonder if that is what i do wrong o.o
treating guys as... well i would treat anyone *realises how corny that sounded*
forget it XP
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 9, 2005 15:39:32 GMT -5
I know... im just not a very sociable person... and I get nervous around girls... no matter my intention... its like a sit com *grumbles*.
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Post by Zolah on Nov 9, 2005 16:34:30 GMT -5
You maybe need to hang out more with ( dont take this wrong ) Guy-girls... maybe they are called tomboys? o.o
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 10, 2005 21:07:08 GMT -5
Meh... no matter what category they fall into. All females can make me nervous... its more like an aura that they eminate... i'll figure things out.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 10, 2005 21:45:11 GMT -5
I second that, although I doubt I'll figure things out. =3
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Post by Zolah on Nov 11, 2005 9:21:24 GMT -5
well. i cant do much, yiu could try internet dating ( how weird doesnt that sound XP)
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 11, 2005 13:07:40 GMT -5
To be honest, I have had an online girlfriend. .-. It's a very long story, though...
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Post by Zolah on Nov 11, 2005 15:55:22 GMT -5
well, if you want you can tell.. i cant force you .
but people say im a good listener though
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 11, 2005 16:00:44 GMT -5
I 'unno. It's pretty complicated. Anyone else wanna hear?
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Post by Üfy the Teddy Slayer. on Nov 11, 2005 16:20:46 GMT -5
I'd be interested if you wanted to post. All my relationships have either started or gotten going via internet, and they've been rather complicated too, but that's my own fault really =>.<=
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 11, 2005 16:21:46 GMT -5
Sure why not.
Anyway, this conversation is giving me low self esteem, so im just gonna back out.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 11, 2005 17:00:57 GMT -5
Okay. It started almost a year ago... An internet friend of mine, Mossy from Neopets, came to me one day and admitted she kinda had a crush on me. At first it was weird to me, seeing as she lived 1617 miles away and was 5 years younger, but we overcame it. And I fell in love with her. Like, for real. =\ I always though that she was that one special person they say is out there for everyone. I thought we'd someday meet and get married and grow old together. She made me feel loved and special like no one ever has. She was the first--and only--girl who ever showed any interest in me. But later... As it when on, when school started for her again... She began to grow away from me... We didn't have much in common, but I still liked her even if we didn't understand each other's interests (for example, she liked piercings, tattoos, and razor blades; I like anime, videogames, and comics). But she eventually got really harsh and cold toward me. She used to call me sweet and funny and smart and sexy. Now she prefers terms like stupid, immature, and not all that attractive. =\ She broke up with me in September, after we had been an online couple for 10 months. And she got a new boyfriend--in real life--not two days later. Like she didn't even need to get over me. Add that to my failures and rejections with Kerri and Kelly (elsewhere in this thread), and you can see why I kinda feel like I'll never even get to hold a girl's hand. =\
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Post by Zolah on Nov 11, 2005 17:26:19 GMT -5
oh, sorry to hear that.
sounds like you became very hurt
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Post by lysinias on Nov 11, 2005 17:29:01 GMT -5
Aw... That is harsh, name calling is so very unnecessary.
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Post by Üfy the Teddy Slayer. on Nov 11, 2005 17:37:05 GMT -5
Awh, that's no reason to despair. I've had my fair share of bad experiancesbut if you close your heart to anything new it makes it that much harder for anyone else to enter your life in such a way. (tired, fill in your own words to make my phrases make sense =>.<=)
It's much easier for people to get close online, but unfortunately that can backfire as the people you talk to can be so very far away in real life =<_>= and long distance relationships are often just as painful when they're going really really well as when they go bad.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 11, 2005 17:59:40 GMT -5
Yeah, it was very hard and lonely at times when we were getting along... Even with the internet, the phone, and the US Postal System, we just couldn't be close enough...
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Post by Drey too lazy to log in on Nov 11, 2005 20:05:27 GMT -5
This is going off on a bit of a tangent, but it is consistent with the TITLE of this thread.....
It says in his bio that Zeno "seems young" and "appears to be around 9 years old" and stuff like that....but how old is he really? Has it been mentioned and I'm just unattentive? Is it as of yet unknown? Is it privileged information? If you told me, would you have to kill me?
I MUST KNOW but I don't know why.
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Post by deltaT on Nov 12, 2005 1:45:49 GMT -5
Ummm....I don't think those things are secret, it's just been awhile since we actually discussed it. I'm afraid I can't remember. Anyone?
Darkfire, my younger son has just started an online relationship with a girl in Florida (we're in southern Ontario). Do you have any words of wisdom for him? I'm just glad that he still tells me this kind of thing.
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