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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 12, 2005 11:26:23 GMT -5
Well, I'm really not good at giving advice... But I can say that, obviously, trust is probably the most important thing. Mossy and I were friends for about a year before she admitted having feelings for me. And we had also exchanged letters through the postal service and communicated on the telephone before too. That's all I really know... Sorry if I'm not much help.
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 12, 2005 11:27:19 GMT -5
Amelius said that he was currently nine years old, but that she wasnt sure if she was going to keep it like that. So we're not supposed to read too much into it.
So that means its a forbidden topic.
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Post by Drey on Nov 12, 2005 12:57:40 GMT -5
Nuuu, no WAY Zeno is only nine years old.
I mean.....Mye is, what, 200-something years old, aye? If Amelius had her dating an ACTUAL LITTLE KID all this time, well, I think I'll have to throw up.
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Post by Amelius on Nov 12, 2005 13:09:11 GMT -5
no,no, hold your vomit, I can't say much...but just wait a little longer and this mystery will also be solved. It has a few things to do with his past that I don't want to reveal just yet ^_^ but for now, Zeno appears to be around 9....(hint)
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 12, 2005 14:51:13 GMT -5
I wasnt talking about Zeno, I was talking about Darkfire Taimatsu.
It was probably all those experiments they did on him when he was younger. They stunted his growth.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 13, 2005 17:46:53 GMT -5
What about me now?
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 13, 2005 21:23:07 GMT -5
Amelius said that you were currently only nine years old but that she might cange that later, so we're no supposed to read too much into that.
And I said that all those experiments those humans did on you when you were a kid stunted your growth.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 13, 2005 21:48:19 GMT -5
Ohh... I see.
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 14, 2005 21:41:28 GMT -5
Righhhhttt then.
Quick note for the relationship thing: I'm prone to crushes, but I'm more of the"it's just hormones, I'll grow out of it" type of person. So, I ignore them and they pretty much go away. I had a crush on one of my good guy friends, but I grew out of it pretty quick. I've never had a relationship of any kind, online or otherwise. I swear, some of the girls I know can't understand it.
But back to the last page; Rehiro: Mebbe it's easier to talk to girls on the forum because we aren't near you for our aura's to affect you?
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 15, 2005 0:00:55 GMT -5
Yeah, thats most probably it.
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 16, 2005 16:03:55 GMT -5
Nifty.
Really can't think of much to say.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 16, 2005 18:45:56 GMT -5
Even I can't think of something to say next, as I'm sure you're all sick of hearing of my problems by now, hmm? =)
So I guess we can safely let this thread go back to... y'know, whatever it was used for before. I forget. =3
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 16, 2005 22:06:23 GMT -5
Something about...characters?
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 17, 2005 23:14:39 GMT -5
Hey, y'know those nerds I destroyed? The ones that shunned females? Well it appears that many of them are now interacting with females quite a bit. And im now the one in a spot with three people who seem to passively shun girls. I am nearing the former king nerds status.
Recently I got a few moments of fame. And the reaction I got, I found most peculiar. I had thought that, these particular people thought of me as a borderline retarded animal, but instead the reaction from these females contridicted that thought quite a bit. Now I must come to the conclusion that, the only thing standing in the way of my interacting with a female is myself. And I must force tolerance on my people before they openly admit to not wishing to have females in the group.
Action must be made now! Plans must be drawn! If they were impressed before, then I will make their heads spin. Watch out, female gender. Here comes Rehiro!
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*Sigh*
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Post by Drey is not a on Nov 18, 2005 14:13:30 GMT -5
I like girls....quite a bit....one in particular....
Quick word of advice, nerd-boy....get a girlfriend just as nerdy as you if not more so. For example, my girlfriend just finished building me a computer. Yoik.
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 18, 2005 20:08:55 GMT -5
Nerds are shallow and they cant see anything beyond their own narrow view. Nerds shun females, for reasons hard to comprehend. The bain of my group is two geeks. Geeks love the things of nerds but lack commitment.
You assume that because of my skewed perspective on life, I am a nerd. And probably because of my post count...
And we're not yet a nerd hall. Although if I dont stop this, it may become one. And since theirs only one former nerd, that would be an inapropriate title.
Do you think I would be more likely to talk to a nerd girl? The reason im in this position is because i've allowed the others to do all the converting. I would accept a person not on the condition of what their former category was, but on who they were. And theres no way in holy hell that im going to actively seek out a True Nerd. Those barbaric people disgusted me.
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Post by X Daggers on Nov 20, 2005 18:53:14 GMT -5
Wow I've missed quite alot... I had to go back a few pages and read before I had any clue about what you guys were talking about (^_^; )
I can understand how most of this group feels, though. I've never gone out with anyone at any time in any way. I've talked to a total of 5 guys (as in a conversation) in my life. I'm not interested in girls that way. If I was, maybe I'd have a girlfriend by now because I know more girls than guys. But anyway...
Unless you're like 30 years old you should just wait and try to notice opportunities to know someone you're interested in. Don't get stressed about it. The only reason you'd need a "mate" is b'cuz you're horny, and that's what masturbation is for.
Anotherwords, get a girlfriend because you like that person, not because you are lonely.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 20, 2005 19:15:01 GMT -5
You raise an interesting point, although I'm really hoping to solve both those things at once. My main issue is that I don't know how to get a girl. Like, at all. I haven't seen anyone my own age in five months. Graduating sucks. .-.
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 20, 2005 22:41:29 GMT -5
Personally, I'm not wanting a mate at this point. I'm not ready to get married, so I dun wanna date.
Rehiro, don't get a girlfriend to keep your group from being shunned by females. That's a sucky and mean thing to do. Take it up with your group, invite some girls over to the pillar, nothing drastic. If I've got it wrong, sorry.
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 21, 2005 0:13:49 GMT -5
Heheh I wasnt going to just go out and get a girlfriend. Im just afraid that those other two people in the spot secretly dont want anything to do with females. Giving off an impression to all females not to come into contact with us. Im worried that I would be forced to either give up my position as holder of the pillar, or live a life void of females. I know that they wouldnt outwardly shun females however, so i've been sneaking about and looking for potential converts without telling those two what im doing.
I've targeted a much smaller group of three females of the same build as ours. The people seem to be generaly loners without each other and i've devised a plan. Along with only my most faithfull deciple, I shall go and greet them. Not holding back my oddness at all. I shall not try and convert them. I shall introduce myself and perhaps try and create conversation, eventually concluding in a request for our spot to become ally's.
I will then act as a friend and visit the spot regularly until they come to visit the pillar. Then the other two in my spot will be forced to accept them and afterwords, we shall see what will happen.
Im going to look for ally's first. Then converts. Then perhaps a girlfriend. Whether this is all to be gained from this one group is yet to be seen.
I think I have some kind of inferiority complex or something. From not ever being in a relationship. So I have to compensate for it by being plotful and scheming.
X: Welcome back! The first thread about me with detailed information is the one that points out my flaws ;D And im not 30, im 16.
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Post by silverwolf on Nov 21, 2005 16:10:25 GMT -5
Ah, that's all good then. Good luck!
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Post by deltaT on Nov 22, 2005 3:14:55 GMT -5
I have to say that the whole girl/boy being aliens to each other thing is just not true in the long run. Although I didn't talk much to guys when I was a teenager, mostly due to crushing shyness, later I found that most of my best friends have been guys. When I went back to college recently, there were very few women in my program, but I felt perfectly at home. Mostly, I think, you have to just look at the people around you as fellow people, not as girls or boys. Then, if you like someone, you can take it further. But you shouldn't go out with someone just because they are of the opposite sex, and they like you. That is just short changing yourself. You should only date someone if they have qualities that you actually like.
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Post by Zolah on Nov 22, 2005 5:34:23 GMT -5
I Agree with deltaT, its much truth in what she said
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 22, 2005 12:13:32 GMT -5
Everyone has extremely good advice, and yet I still feel like it's irrelevant. (No offence to anyone.)
(P.S. All my friends are already girls. Just younger and very far away.)
(P.P.S. 6000th post = MINE)
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Post by Rehiro on Nov 22, 2005 16:17:43 GMT -5
ARGH! You people just dont understand that to look at people as just people, though very ideal, is impossible for me. Because on some level I have to be aware of my sexual attraction. I try to cover it up, but its the simple truth. The aura of sexual presence is always there. And im not just going to go out ask someone out. I dont have nearly enough nerve for that. My plan is to just try and talk to one of them so that I can become desensitized to it and eventually be able to see things the way that you people do. Or at least take control of my emotions. But first I must force myself to aproach one of them. If I dont force myself to do that, I will live my life hiding from my emotions. I cant just turn off my sexuality like you people can.
Anyway, thats the root of my problem. You've forced it out of me...
Oh, and congratulations on the 6000th post Taimatsu.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 22, 2005 16:44:53 GMT -5
Yep, 6000th is pretty good... Wasn't it just, like, a couple weeks ago you got the 5000th? Man, this board has a LOT of posts. As to your other thing, sounds like you're my polar opposite, eh? Truth be told, I'm not sure if my sexuality has ever been turned ON. I fell for Kelly coz she was nice to me when I really needed it, and I fell for Mossy coz she fell for me first. Funny, ain't it? Both trying for a similar goal with opposite views--and getting similar results... There's a message in there somewhere, but I dunno what it is.
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 23, 2005 18:05:13 GMT -5
Yeah, I dunno how Miroku does that...
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Post by X Daggers on Nov 23, 2005 19:12:09 GMT -5
Haha, Miroku's great... ;D Yeah, ur 16, don't worry too much about it. Except for your sexual drive (^_^; ) I can totally relate (since I'm 16 too ) That sux. I have no advice for that... I'm the last person to be advising anyone 'bout this, so yeah... >hops away<
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Post by DarkfireTaimatsu on Nov 23, 2005 19:15:15 GMT -5
Me, I'm nineteen... It's a bit odd, isn't it?
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Post by Zolah on Nov 24, 2005 3:19:15 GMT -5
Is it now i shall reveal im a huge perv or something? o.o im gonna see if i can find somewhere else to talk since im just confused tor the moment
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